I’m more than a little surprised how much First Lady Barbara
Bush’s death has affected me. I never met her. I thought she was bright and
witty; a passionate advocate; a voice of reason that cut through the political
fog; a kind woman who cared for her family and worked tirelessly for literacy
efforts.
The tributes on Facebook and Twitter repeat accolades such
as grace, dignity and strength and cite her as “fierce & feisty in support
of her family” (Bill Clinton) and “recognizing the importance of literacy as a
fundamental family value” (Donald Trump) and “as an example of the humility and
decency that reflects the very best of the American spirit” (Barack Obama).
Dying at ninety-two is certainly no tragedy – hell, it was a
great run!
I’m thinking that my reaction comes from the recurrent
mention of her grace and dignity. I don’t think these two attributes are well
represented any more in our country. I think that they are the exception rather
than the rule.
We celebrate “in your face” behavior and applaud the disruptive. Shouting down or creating violent situations for speakers
with whom we disagree is “normal.” Petitioning that points of view be squelched
because we don’t agree is becoming sadly common. Intimidation of disparate thinkers
the norm (and I am including all sides of the political spectrum with these
lamentations).
Rest in peace Mrs. Bush.
Image of Mrs. Bush from Getty Images.
Image of Mrs. Bush from Getty Images.
Well said, Pete. Let us all strive for grace and dignity.
ReplyDeleteThanks JoAnn!
DeleteI wish what you wish... may those "lights" illuminate the darkness.
ReplyDeleteThank you Maria.
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